So the examples of Middle Eastern (women especially) in pop culture that I remembered were two music videos from around 2003. The first is "Snake" by R.Kelly and the second is "Addicted" by Truth Hurts. Both use very stereotypical imagery of Middle Eastern women and have stereotypically Middle Eastern beats...

R. Kelly- Snake
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6j54wyueL-E
(sorry imbedding the file isn't allowed for this video)

Truth Hurts - Addictive